I think it’s really important in any relationship to find out what you disagree on, Often it can be way more revealing than knowing what you agree on.

Ibn al Jawzi رحمه الله stated, “How can the heart sleep in tranquility, while it does not yet know whether it will dwell in Hell or in Paradise?” [Captured Thoughts, Pg.73]

Umar ibn al-Khattab رضي الله عنه said: “Verily, when a servant humbles himself for the sake of Allāh Almighty, He increases his wisdom.” [Juz’ fihi Hadith Sufān ibn ‘Uyaynah 24]

Sufyān ath-Thawrī رحمه الله said: I have never dealt with anything more difficult than my own soul, sometimes I lose, sometimes I win. [سير أعلام النبلاء 7/258]

Not to be confused with banning actual human rights and womens rights

Why are trains in the UK so expensive All I’m trying to do is go to Wales 😂😂

Al-Hasan al-Basri رحمه الله said: “The believer performs acts of obedience while being apprehensive, fearful, and afraid, whereas the wicked person commits acts of disobedience while feeling secure.” Fath al-Bari: 11/6308

Those who memorize music lyrics can’t memorize Quran at the same time Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله said: “…. Never do the love of song and the love of Qur’ân come together in a person’s heart except that one expels the other…” [Madârij Al-Sâlikîn, Vol.1, Page 487]

“I seek refuge with you from becoming an ungrateful servant who counts trials and forgets blessings.”

Ibn taymiyyah رحمه الله said: "Some of the salaf would say: 'Anyone can perform righteous deeds; however, only a sincere individual can abandon sinning." [qā'idah fi al-sabr, pg. 91]

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them." 📚 Narrated by Abu Dawud, 4031; classed as sahih by al-Albani in Sahih Sunan Abi Dawud

Sh. Muqbil Raḥimahullāh said: “O Muslims!! If you were to prefer Dunyā over Ākhirah; you would neither be able to grab Dunyā nor would you be able to achieve (success of) Ākhirah.” ● [كتاب غارة الأشرطة ١/٤٥٥]

First and foremost is to reform yourself Focus on your own shortcomings, Focus on your own actions, Keep yourself busy with good deeds

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله: If love isn’t for the sake of Allah, then it will (inevitably) come to an end. [مجموع الفتاوى ٣٨/٢٨]

Ibn ʿAbbās (رضي الله عنهما) said: “It is disliked for a man to stand for prayer while he is lazy. Rather, he should come to it with a cheerful face, strong desire, and great joy. For indeed, he is conversing privately with Allah, and Allah is before him.

The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said: "The du’a of anyone of you is granted by Allah as long as the person does not show impatience” 📚 Sahih al-Bukhari 6340