Anna Magpie 🔎🏳️‍⚧️ it can be reassuring to remember that ppl often aren't writing to *you* when they post something derogatory. it's not *for* beating yourself up. the way to play the Internet Game is to go "clearly this isn't meant for me" and move on to something that is.

What authority would you rather live under? Bossy Weakling: asserts (unwelcome) control over many aspects of your life, but can't enforce much Chill Dictator: only imposes (unwelcome) control over a few things, but is all-powerful & enforces their will absolutely