It has been my personal observation that children who were planned or intentional have prominent Venus placements.
The ones who are not intentional or wanted at that specific moment usually have Mars and Saturn energy.
conflict would be a lot easier to handle if people openly opposed you, but they don’t. that’s the difficulty when you want to interact with people in good faith while you are on some level aware of the harm.
having integrity in your own path can look like blasphemy in the eyes of another. this is why societal judgment cannot be the final judgement. people lack the perspective needed to see the bigger picture.
You could be looking at someone sooo crazy and the whole time they’re doing exactly what they need to be doing. Just because your understanding is limited doesn’t mean that their path is.
want to strengthen your mars? Learning to fight is well and good, but what you really need to do is learn to let things go when you know you can win. Winning is a temporary state, but you have to live with who you are at the end of the day.