Never ceases to amaze me how often I see nerds neg themselves into a corner. You're playing yourself, fool! Literally man up and stop indulging in this stereotype of being an unattractive, socially-inept loser. Liking computers is perfectly compatible with success in life/love.
Lucent Firewall was ahead of its time in terms on Command and Control. Ran 5 bricks across the United States on a Sun Microsystems E450 Mini Server. It was on wheels under my desk.