Crazy how peaceful life becomes when you detach from people's projections because you realize how most people treat you has nothing to do with you and everything to do with how they feel about themselves.
Iβve grown so much as a woman. I look back at some of the mistakes I made in life & just shake my head because why did I allow certain things to play out the way they didβ¦β¦ I thank GOD for growth, wisdom, clarity of who I am as a woman.
Life hit different when you stop trying to prove you didn't say that, you didn't do that, you not like that... you can't fix every lie and every rumor, neither can you defend yourself every time something is said about you... just do you!
A healing stage is disgust. Yes, disgust. You will be DISGUSTED by the people whose love you seeked. You will feel embarrassed about the choices you made and the people who had access to you who didnβt deserve it. Feel this feeling then let it go.
That will NEVER be you again
No cocky shhh but I know the impact I have on people. Whether we dated or were friends, you will always remember me and randomly think of me, im a genuine person with a good heart and that shhh is rare and canβt be forgotten or replaced rather people ever admit it or not.
Ainβt nothing βweirdβ about me. If you rub me the wrong way, im either doing two things.. speaking on it &/or removing myself & revoking your access to me. I donβt move weird. Itβs very black & white w/ me. Ainβt NO grey areas.