What’s striking about such men is that more often than not they already knew exactly the kind of person she is before marrying her. She didn’t hide her lifestyle,habits or personality. Yet instead of choosing someone whose values,skills and rhythms match their supposed "type",
His view is very common and it's why the silly myth of "princess treatment" is a delusion. Under patriarchy, men are taught to see women's labor as their purpose in the marriage. It's an institution designed to be extractive of women's bodies and labors. If a woman has leisure --
You can go your entire life not engaging in transactional sex, then you get married, and then you're having sex so he won't look outside, having sex for upkeep money, having sex to apologise, having sex for duty, having sex when you don't want to, having sex so he won't beat you.
seeing the reader's note in combination with the ✨hard hitting social commentary ✨ just drives it home how fake & perfectly placed everything is to bait you now