Most women say they want a good man until he shows up with boundaries, self-respect, and expectations. Suddenly, he’s no longer a good man, he’s a narcissist.

cutting off a narcissist from your life & radically accepting you’re going to be the villain in their delusional story is most painful yet top tier self care

When you treat the narcissists the way they treat you, they get upset.

Narcissists really do believe they're a victim. They believe people should be tolerant of their behaviour (projection, gaslighting, lies, manipulation, control, corruption, maliciousness, self entitlement, grandiose, self-centered, lack of empathy, no accountability, narcissistic

a hardest pill to swallow is that people will hurt you. dehumanize you in so many ways and not feel badly about it. they won’t feel a thing actually. they’ll move on with their day, their week, their life, happy as ever but there you are, crushed. loss of appetite. loss of sleep.

Manipulation is when someone blames you for your reaction to their toxic behaviour but doesn’t discuss their disrespect that triggered you.

I recall a DM from a married man. He loves sex so much & doesn't give his wife breathing space. So one day, his wife decided to poop & didn't clean her nyarsh. The man wanted to have sex again, then she positioned herself for doggy. He was traumatized. 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 End.

A man can be emotionally shattered, mentally exhausted, financially ruined, and spiritually drained, but if he’s still showing up, no one notices. Society doesn’t check his mental health, only his performance. Utility over humanity. Every time

The weapons fashioned against Nigeria are many, Abike is one of them. Despicable humans!

“Apology is not enough, Kwam have to face 2 years imprisonment for obstructing an Aircraft, as stipulated by the Nigerian law. The law has to be enforced.” - U.S Soldier

just apologize to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… all that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. people love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.

JUST IN: The National Association of Aircraft Pilots and Engineers has demanded that NCAA lift the suspension of ValueJet captain and first officer over the disruption at Nnamdi Azikiwe International Airport, Abuja, involving Fuji musician Wasiu Ayinde Marshal (K1 De Ultimate).

Remember the passenger who created a scene in an Abuja to Lagos flight on Ibom Air in March 2023? The last time I checked, many people, including people in Government, spoke strongly against the action, and the passenger was arrested, charged in court, and remanded in Kuje

Another day, another drama at the Airport between a passenger onboard Ibom Air and the AVSEC at the Lagos Airport today. The passenger was on the Uyo to Lagos flight today. E don dey shele.

There’s a ticking time bomb in millions of Nigerian kitchens. And it doesn’t look like this 💣 or this 🧨… It looks like this.

The lady with the Ibom air has been charged very fast! But k1 has apologized

While the safety of passengers and adherence to flight protocols are non-negotiable principles under the Civil Aviation Act 2022 and the Nigerian Civil Aviation Regulations, the way this incident was handled raises serious questions about proportionality, procedure, and respect

If you young legit hardworking men are not careful, you'll marry into the wrong family because you feel pity for their daughter. You're better off marrying from a family that has a fairly similar social/financial status with yours. Allow poor people to marry themselves. End.

To every girl who is considering getting married, you CAN absolutely keep your name after marriage and I think you should. 4 years married now, I have relocated, had a baby, held joint account, travelled solo with my child and not one issue. Don’t let anyone lie to you.