I think it's really strange how so many people are so horrible about polyamory

Even in casual sex, you need to be with a partner who is kind to you. Cares about you and treats you gently. Someone you can actually talk to and hang out with. Just because it’s casual doesn’t mean it should be with someone emotionally unavailable or cruel.

oh to be ducks walking on Hydrangea petals

some of y’all think you make good partners because you won’t cheat but you fail to realize you're inconsiderate, unappreciative, manipulative, insecure, lack empathy, have poor communication skills, and harbor emotional trauma from past relationships.

Dakota is me.

Polyamory isn’t for everyone but a big benefit is that it really keeps you on your toes in a way that happens a lot less often in monogamy. Don’t get complacent in your relationships, because if you don’t show up, someone else will 😂

IF 👏🏼 YOUR 👏🏼 WOMAN 👏🏼 LIKES 👏🏼 BEING 👏🏼 CHOKED 👏🏼 DURING 👏🏼 SEX 👏🏼 YOU'RE 👏🏼 SUPPOSED 👏🏼 TO 👏🏼 SQUEEZE 👏🏼 THE 👏🏼 SIDES 👏🏼 OF 👏🏼 HER 👏🏼 NECK 👏🏼 WITH 👏🏼 YOUR 👏🏼 FINGERS 👏🏼 NOT 👏🏼 CRUSH 👏🏼 HER 👏🏼 WINDPIPE 👏🏼 WITH 👏🏼 YOUR 👏🏼 PALM 👏🏼 YOU 👏🏼 IDIOT 👏🏼

You can be polyamorous and picky with who you choose as a partner. Having 1 partner or even 0 partners won’t ruin your life…but choosing the wrong partner(s) to date might.

Slutting out my partner (consensually, obviously!) and enjoying the experience of watching them getting railed by other people is a top-tier non-monogamy experience for me. And sometimes we even take turns!