People underestimate the power of consideration in a relationship. I know with me, there's nothing I won't or that you can't get me to do when I've experienced your consideration of me. Go naganela motho is fucken attractive.

I think (most times) how people treat you is a reflection of how they feel about themselves

Aye bra… they really think it’s some flex. That time you realize the woman you put on a pedestal is actually someone’s loser. You can’t see past that once it happens

I hate that I have to take her side…yho anibhadlanga on this internet

The only grandson Mandela could be proud of

Lmao imama elifeyilayo. I’m sorry but we’d have to break up 😭

and this is why I will always believe in “the grass is always greener on the other side” especially in your 20s.

This is how men feel about being called a "real man" or a "kind man"

What happened to hating your best friend’s man because he is not good enough for your friend. Nobody could ever be. We became inclusive in all the wrong ways. Ugh

This reads very differently in Zimbabwe

Her story got me thinking about childhood friendships and why I champion making new friends as an adult with a fully developed brain. Often the friends you make in primary school or as a teen are not necessarily friends you choose but friends that happen to you.

I think you guys know what type of men your boyfriends and husbands are and that is why you go through all of these things trying to keep them away from the other women in your lives.

Social media has lost its mind from both creator and consumer perspectives. Everyone is just a crazy.

No. Baby showers are organised by loved ones who want to help the new parent start off in their new journey with items they will need. Why would the costs of it fall on the father when he didn’t ask you guys to organise it? If you don’t want to contribute, just can say no. 🤷🏾‍♀️

You know the real answer to all these questions, because all of them are the same really, is to just say what you can afford or what you are willing to afford and then contribute that. But we don’t want to be honest about what we can or cannot afford, so we choose to lash out.

Beamer in 1979 😭 I know what you are

Yeah and maybe people don’t even want to be improved by you. Often we just assume that they do. Because our ideas and our ways are so great. But actually maybe not? Hey?

“Planned girlfriends” 🤣🤣🤣

Always complaining about people not being the way you want them to be but never just leaving and leaving them alone. It’s a sickness.