boy logic: i like you but i'm talking to 3 other girls but i like you trust me

boys never say “let’s break up.” they just treat you worse until you leave, then blame you in the end.

i really be going insane & everyone around me just like “you are so prettyyyyyy.”

relationship advice for men: if she's important to you, show her. loudly, clearly, and consistently.

STOP DEALING WITH MEN WHO THINK YOU'RE TRYING TO START AN ARGUMENT EVERY TIME YOU EXPRESS HOW YOU FEEL !!!!!! THEY STILL HAVE SOME GROWING TO DO.

i think it's attractive when someone texts you after hanging out just to say they had fun with you, idk little things like that mean a lot to me.

after a while, you realize “this ain't what i wanna keep going through” and you just stop.

IT’S ATTRACTIVE AF WHEN SOMEBODY SAYS THEY WANT YOU AND PROVES IT AND DOES EVERYTHING IN THEIR POWER NOT TO LOSE YOU.

i refuse to give birth to a baby unless i am 100% adored, loved & taken care of by the father.

can't be submissive to a man that doesn't make you feel safe enough to be you. you're constantly in defense mode, your energy is withdrawn, your mind is anxious about what will happen next. there's no compliant heart in that environment, you just grow more indifferent with time.

maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. it's about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you.

girl to girl.... put you first. hit the gym consistently. keep your nails done. eat GOOD food. do the hobbies you enjoy. take your vitamins. 9-10 hours of sleep. buy that new workout set. delete distractions. water your grass so much that you don't give a shit about anyone.

unhealed trauma makes you tolerate so much shit you don't deserve because you don't want to lose people. healing makes you realise; losing them is better than losing yourself. you finally understand that some people don't deserve access to you, no matter how much you love them.

i wanna build a relationship with someone who cares about “why” ive been quiet all day. not someone who gets mad cause i'm acting different.

if you REPEATEDLYYY have to tell someone the same exact thing about how you feel and nothing changes, understand they don't respect you.

my mood just goes 📉📈📉📈📉📈 everyday.

healing makes you realize that some people don’t deserve to be around you, no matter how much you love them. unconditional love doesn’t mean unconditional tolerance for abuse, disrespect, or bullshit. it doesn’t mean having no boundaries.