"...distrustful of people and relationships that don't include a need for fawning behaviour, they're unable to easily choose partners who are open and appreciative of them because they're suspicious of the end game of someone who is overtly loving..." onthewetcoast.com/post.php?The-F…

What is something you wish you knew about non-monogamy before you started? #polyam #nonmonogamy #nonmono

For me it was that sexual jealousy is almost never a thing but that I'd have a really hard time with jealousy/envy over witnessing intimacy like hearing pet names we'd never use, or inside jokes, or seeing a text expressing love in a way we don't with one another. #polyam

ICYMI: The Fawning Abyss - "What was wrong with me? Why couldn’t I just move on the way my rational brain had? Why does my emotional brain constantly slip back into the patterns of trying to please and desperately seeking approval?" onthewetcoast.com/post.php?The-F…

FOMO can mean we're not able to be present in the moment & we don't ever truly enjoy the experience we're currently having. Kat Stark & Serious FLICK discuss Novelty, Being in the Moment & the natural closer to that trifecta: Gangbangs On The Wet Coast podcasts.onthewetcoast.com/otwc-040-novel…

I was talking to a couple white friends about the tiny ways white supremacy snakes its way into normalcy and I realized how invisible some of it has become to nonblack people. Tiny ways we're dehumanized daily. So I wanted to do a quick thread about a few examples.

Tristan Taormino Tristan Taormino® joins Kat Stark & Serious FLICK to discuss her upcoming memoir & living out loud as an act of queer rebellion. We talk vulnerability, early 90s erotica, "masculine energy", and of course, #butt stuff. On The Wet Coast podcasts.onthewetcoast.com/otwc-041-trist…

If you killed a man w/ health conditions, you still killed a man. George Floyd couldn’t breathe. 3 officers held him down, & one w/ a recorded, violent history kneed his neck as others helped. They waited 9 minutes for his last breath. This was not an accident. It was murder.

I had a great conversation with Kat Stark and Serious FLICK for their podcast On The Wet Coast — they asked me lots of things that people usually don’t, so the discussion feels really fresh. bit.ly/2yMDshO

"We apologize for being caught on camera being racist. We will do better at hiding our racism in future."

I have a squirting joke but many of you'd just think I was taking the piss.

In their final podcast ep pre-hiatus @WetCoastKat & @SeriousFLICK dive into/call BS on the myth we all learn about how sex should just "flow", making the case for more talking equalling better sex. #GoWithTheFlow? More like #NoWithTheFlow On The Wet Coast podcasts.onthewetcoast.com/otwc-042-the-m…

Join Athena, Jackie, and me for an online workshop this Thursday Feb 18 at 6:30pm Pacific. Everything you always wanted to know about Ethical Non-Monogamy but were too afraid to ask. Tickets at TheBadAcademy.com/workshops jacki @thebadacademy

We're back! Serious FLICK & I had a great chat with Dr. Liz Powell (they/them) about re-entering the dating world as more folx are vaccinated. They share tips on first date ideas, discussing risk with potential partners, & I panic about needing to be interesting. Out tomorrow! On The Wet Coast

Listen to "OTWC 043: Reconnecting with Dr. Liz Powell - On The Wet Coast". ⚓ anchor.fm/on-the-wetcoas… Serious FLICK Dr. Liz Powell (they/them) On The Wet Coast

Makes me bananas when companies make you jump through inconvenient hoops 'to serve you better'. I spent 10 minutes trying to post to our Facebook page on my phone before remembering that they've got a separate goddamn app for it. WHYYYYYYYYY???

On the latest episode of On The Wet Coast we talk to PolyRoleModels...but at home... about representation of sex and relationships in media. Join us for a fun and thoughtful discussion Serious FLICK anchor.fm/on-the-wetcoas…