I think expats should get a 2 year grace period where it’s fine to not speak the language. Beyond that, if you aren’t at least actively trying to learn it’s pretty ignorant. Long term (7+ year) people who don’t speak at least B1 level should be deported and banned from reentering

Getting “good with women” is a terrible goal, because if that’s the goal, in essence it means that your goal is to change yourself into any form that elicits a desired effect from others. That is pure bondage The goal should be to have the power to act how you want to act, to be

Anyone who believes this needs to explain why professional athletes, people in top 1% of physical conditioning and nutrition, have higher rates of anxiety and depression than the general population This shows a very simplistic understanding of human psychology AKA moron

Been dating my current main girl for 7 months, we are already making plans to eventually have a kid, but for now we are keeping it a bit more chill She told me recently she had a university bill due, it was like $500 nothing major, but she said she was struggling to pay it. I

Tea app, but for gringos who use dating apps in Colombia

When I graduated high school I weighed 132lbs at 5”11. I was the complete opposite of a chad, and had extremely high crippling levels of anxiety, to the point where I’d often have random panic attacks in public. It was so bad that even on the very rare occasion that a girl

Love going to a city that you have low expectations for and it way exceeds those expectations, the place just clicks with you You can’t get this type of personalized info from reading online or watching videos, need to get out and explore

It used to be that if a girl dressed slutty, she was. But there’s a certain type of Gen Z chick thats become way more common, she dresses slutty, but isn’t. Frigid, low body or virgin chicks with tongue/nose piercings, purple hair, chokers etc Just one example, but point is

This lad just procreated with a cutie, launched his genes into the next generation, a ripple effect into eternity Meanwhile you have been on Bumble for 8 years and are “planning to settle down one day”. Ngmi

In 2025 you cannot necessarily infer much from this girls appearance or social media antics. If you disagree, you’re not in the game

What the cute chick at the cafe sees before getting cold approached by me on a Sunday morning (after Saturday night bender)

Theoretically yes, but in practice people don’t. Almost every guy I meet in Latin America ends up getting 100% of their dates from apps, why is that? Because apps alone give them sufficient options, which makes them lazy to push themselves. Dating apps are comfort zone enablers

IRL approaching is also about optimizing for low exposure women. Dating apps are high exposure women, dudes end up competing for the relatively small group of women who are active on the apps in a particular city

The average South Brazilian according to Gringo Twitter

The heartthrob love interest in this film was a broke line cook who had a side gig at a fish market. The “broke lover” was a common archetype in films from the mid 90s to mid 2000s, think Leo in Titanic, Noah in the Notebook and many other examples. Don’t see that much anymore

If you’re looking for a serious relationship with a quality girl overseas there are two major pitfalls that hurt foreigners the most Over reliance on dating apps is one that I’ve already discussed, but perhaps an equally significant one that applies to most foreigners is; not

How many more model releases do we need for folks to realize we are not getting to magical superintelligence with what we got? How many times do you have to see a model benchmaxxing to realize Humanity's Last Exam is a freaking idiotic name and that answering questions on it

I like Lindyman, but his dumbest ever take is that people began aging slower due to bottled water. The OP here claims its endoctrine disruptors, another common theory I think they’re both wrong, I strongly suspect that previous generations grew up faster due to the psychological