first, accept it is impossible, hopeless, stupid, pointless. and then get to work.

the highest form of giving feedback comes from a place of play (teasing, humor, etc) then from grounded straightforward honesty (direct communication) then from pain (raw hurt, anger) ~ each will land differently to the person receiving the feedback

the kind of vibe I try to bring to the party

having good mental health is a superpower 🙌🏼

do we have control over who we are attracted to? feel free to explain/support your answer in the comments

as you become the person you’re supposed to be, the doors will unlock for you

a day of advenchores! (adventurous chores)

to all my followers, I hereby give you permission to be a little more selfish! (you’ll know if you need this or not)

a lot of life is about learning to stand up to our various bullies

for some of us the opposite is true as well I went too long “outsourcing my expertise” to others, it became habit now in the last few years I’ve re-learned my self-trust, and become more comfortable with the consequences of making a mistake