🦋 Apt.

Side chicks play the game to win 💀 no responsibilities, no nagging…just good vibes, fun & ego boosts. Girlfriends deal w/ the messy reality of bills, stress & the unpolished version of him. It’s easier to seem “perfect” when you’re only there for the highlights🤷🏽‍♀️

Not everyone should have easy access to you. Your time & energy are valuable & protecting your peace means being intentional about who you allow into your space. Boundaries aren’t about isolation…they’re about ensuring access is earned, not given freely.

Not every day will go as planned & some moments may feel heavier than others…but don’t let that stop you. Keep pushing forward. Even the toughest times eventually give way to better days🩵 Ps: today kicked my a** 😓

Decisions made with ill intent ALWAYS come back to teach you a lesson. It might take months or even years but it’s inevitable lol. Even when you think you’ve escaped it…especially when life seems to be going well…but trust me karma never misses 🤷🏽‍♀️ It always catches up.

Exactly! People don’t realize how much our actions reflect what we’re actually ready for. If you want something real you’ve got to step into a space where you respect yourself & set boundaries that match what you’re looking for. Your mind & actions should align with the kind of

(1). Sometimes you just have to mind your business when it comes to friends & their relationships. You’ll believe you’re being a good friend by stepping in & it ends up backfiring…disrupting your peace & dragging you into unnecessary drama 🥴

Hmmm I have a question 👀 Where do YOU draw the line when loyalty pulls you in opposite directions? Let’s say your friend is dating your partner’s friend and your partner shares a secret w/ you that could affect your friend…do you protect that trust in your relationship or

feyisayo 💸 To love someone truly is to want their happiness, even when it means you can’t be the source of it.

feyisayo 💸 Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is let go. Staying in someone’s life when it’s no longer serving either of you can cause more harm than good. Love isn’t about holding on, it’s about giving them the space to grow, even if that means walking away. True love respects

You keep telling yourself you don’t need anyone, but the truth is, everybody needs somebody. Time will show you that, whether you’re ready for it or not.

Exercise. Yoga. Therapy. Meditation. Nature Walks.

Log off. Lock in. Reset.

Stop having kids with people you wouldn’t want your kids to turn out like. Too many people are bringing kids into the world without thinking about the kind of parent they’re choosing. A child is a lifelong reflection of the choices you make…starting with who you choose to have

Quick vent… (1) Why does it seem like women are each other’s biggest critics? So quick to tear the next woman down or pick her apart for absolutely no reason.

A high income means nothing if your spending habits are broke. Budgeting, saving & smart spending will always beat a high paycheck with poor habits.

I’m starting to realize how much life I’ve missed while trying to always capture it 😫 There was a time when we lived for the moment, not just to remember it later. Idk…sometimes it feels like I’m watching my own life through a screen…present, but not really there. I think it’s

Some women will wipe back to front then turn around and blame their man for giving them BV.

My nights consist of chill R&B 🎵 & studying 📖

The biggest mistake people make is thinking they have more time…more time to say what they feel, to chase what they love, to forgive…to live. But time doesn’t wait. It moves quietly…stealing moments we thought we could save for later. Eventually, later becomes never.