Every message, every share, every survivor who’s spoken up since Breaking the Silence aired confirms what we already knew: This isn’t rare. It’s happening every day, in courtrooms, behind closed doors, in plain sight. The system must change. #BreakingTheSilence

How often do courts side with the narcissists? Had a very worrying experience today that leaves me very concerned about the individuals making such important decisions. Can the courts not spot a smear campaign when they see one?

The presumption of parental involvement runs deep. Even where there’s a clear history of domestic abuse, drug abuse, alcohol misuse, and serious mental health concerns, courts are still reluctant to make an order for no contact. Survivors shouldn’t have to fight this hard to

Narcissists really do believe they're a victim. They believe people should be tolerant of their behaviour (projection, gaslighting, lies, manipulation, control, corruption, maliciousness, self entitlement, grandiose, self-centered, lack of empathy, no accountability, narcissistic

“Parental alienation is not just junk science and bad law. It is a symptom of how women are too often treated in the family justice system–pathologised, blamed and stripped of their rights.” — He Said, She Said: Truth, Trauma and the Struggle for Justice in Family Court, Proudman

I trusted the law to uphold justice, but see now that was naïve. For some, it’s a weapon to be used with powerful precision in psychological warfare.

Reality truly shaken by a court experience recently. It’s shocking how easy it is for strategically-minded predators to manipulate perceptions and outcomes, while disorientating the vulnerable. Seems the system isn’t as fair and impartial as I’d previously believed.

Malignant narcissists in the family have to make the scapegoat child out to be the problem because if people knew that they were torturing the compassionate, good child to death for pleasure for being the compassionate, good child, it really wouldn’t look too good, would it? They

Very, very perplexed right now. If the narcissists and their predatory lawyers can so easily manipulate the legal system, and judges can’t see what’s happening, how is justice ever to be served? It’s a serious issue and very few legal professionals seem to grasp it.

People might assume that going no contact with our narcissistic parents means we don’t respect family, don’t care, or are selfish. Nothing could be further from the truth. In fact, that’s what makes it so painful and difficult for us. We care about family more than our family

Being shamed for your anger by a person who has taken advantage of you is them taking further advantage of you. That shit makes you feel crazy. You have every right to be mad.

Shout out to everyone realizing just recently that the story you family has been telling you about yourself is utter horsesh*t-- & that you, actually, get to choose who you are, what you're all about, & what the future holds for you, personally, professionally, & spiritually.

Abuse isn't only physical. It's being degraded, humiliated, blamed, screamed at, lied to, manipulated, isolated, and controlled. These are all forms of narcissistic abuse. They don't leave visible bruises, but they cut just as deep. The constant attacks chip away at your

My right to hold boundaries against unreasonable and abusive behaviour is not in question. Yet within the legal process, those same boundaries can be framed as uncooperative - especially when the narcissists’ narrative prevails. Here, I’ve been at a loss.

Genuine question to reform or Tory voters. Which of these rights don't you want?

Narcissists don't want to resolve issues or conflict. They want to win, be right, and be in control. You can't reason with someone who doesn't listen, manipulates, has to be right, think they know it all, is entitled, rages and disrespects, uses fear, threats, bullying, and

I have come across way too many people who have been on "antidepressants" for 10 years between the ages of 15-25. They identify as asexual because they experience no sex drive. Never told that these drugs numb the genitals & sexual dysfunction is a common side effect. Tragic