Your obsession with trying to understand why something happened to you is what keeps you in a constant loop of overanalysing. You pick apart the situation, the person, the reasons, and then circle back to it again. This is happening because you’re struggling to accept what has
Nobody prepares you for the amount of pain and grief you experience when you have to forgive yourself for believing someone was actually a genuine person.
my grandfather mentioned a good point to me “people who can’t communicate think everything is an argument and people who lack accountability think everything is an attack” and i felt that shit on another level.
Heard someone said: The only time a woman is at her lowest is when she gives everything to the wrong man. And the only time a man is at his lowest is when he gives nothing to the right woman.
Long term relationships really come with a lot of forgiveness..... don’t think you’re about to have 3+ perfect years with someone. We all have flaws and toxic traits so find someone you can grow and become better with.
The hardest truth you will face as a woman is realising that men will stay with you for years without ever choosing you.
A man can enjoy your company, your body, your kindness… and still never fully step into the role of choosing you as his life partner.
Dating an intentional man will teach you that U don't have to ask a man who really desires U for anything. Not communication, not time, not dates, not affection. Nothing..When a man really WANTS you, he moves differently on his own. It's a pleasure for him to do the most for you.