More and more people—including monogamous folks—are seeking co-living communities as an antidote to the loneliness of the nuclear family model. But polyamory allowed me to crack that model open, and build the kind of flexible relationships that I want ncsfreedom.org/2022/08/21/i-f…

"Dan and Lacy talk to Susan Wright founder of the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom. They discuss activism in the alternative lifestyle community and the ways NCSF can help fight back against the discrimination swingers face in today’s society." ncsfreedom.org/2022/08/25/the…

"Unfortunately, that’s also one of the tricky parts about sex — when you’re really aroused, it can completely cloud your sense of judgment. If you’re barrelling full steam towards something, you’re not always in the best place to be thoughtful and ncsfreedom.org/2022/08/26/mis…

"Not only was it socially awkward to bring up kink; it was potentially dangerous, and only after years of activism from the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) did the APA reconsider its diagnostic codes.” #BDSM #Kink #NCSFreedom ncsfreedom.org/2022/08/28/the…

"So while you can use swinger (or any other label) to convey, “Hey, this is my husband, but yes, we are flirting with you and trying to bone,” you could also just say that. That’s what I do in swinger spaces." #consensualnonmonogamy #NCSFreedom ncsfreedom.org/2022/09/05/why…

At Folsom Street Fair in SF on Sunday, Sept 25, the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) will be presenting Janet Hardy with the 2022 Race Bannon Advocacy Award on the Rope/Bondage Stage at 4:45pm (11th Street between Folsom and Howard). ncsfreedom.org/ncsfs-race-ban…

"However, it doesn't matter to me, because both my faith and my polyamory are important to me, and always will be. I think the key to good sex and relationships is all things being safe, consensual, enjoyable, and emotionally healthy for everyone ncsfreedom.org/2022/09/23/im-…

“Before the colonizers came, women would have babies with different men of the tribe, and everyone was happy,” she says. “It’s like, yeah, shit, that makes a lot of sense to me.” ncsfreedom.org/2022/10/08/dia…

"However, aftercare can be beneficial for all types of sex — even if it's "vanilla," says Queen. This is because, for any type of sex, "it feels good to be validated, appreciated, and checked in with" afterward. #BDSM #Kink #NCSFreedom ncsfreedom.org/2022/10/20/sex…