They didn’t just fail to support you, they sabotaged you.

Narcissists don’t just misremember—they reconstruct reality to suit their ego and narrative. It’s not about truth; it’s about control. If the real version of events makes them look bad, vulnerable, or wrong, they’ll edit the memory—intentionally or subconsciously—until it

they disrespected you to make someone else comfortable. remember that.

you agree?

To the narcissist, truth is irrelevant. There is only the narrative that best suits them. While a genuine person values honesty and clarity, a narcissist sees only a contest of whose version of events prevails. They treat every situation like a competition for influence, not a

The toxic monster you saw in the end is who they truly are. Never doubt yourself again when they start to play nice.

The malignant narcissist will tell you they’re trying to help you while they actively do things to make things harder for you. Actions speak loudest.

You weren't divisive. You were honest and that makes you dangerous to toxic people.

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a person purposely keeping you confused about your relationship with them so that they can freely enter and exit to their advantage is energy harvesting btw

This

Narcissistic People spread lies about you because they are afraid you will tell the TRUTH about them.

A narcissist will provoke you until they bring out the worst in you, and then play the victim when you go there.

The narcissist's favourite gaslighting abuse tactic is to set you up to be angry and then shame you for the anger, it's practically a form of entertainment for them.

Reactive abuse is a setup. A narcissist pokes, provokes, nitpicks, insults, gaslights, and keeps grinding away at you until you finally explode. The moment you react, they flip the script and pretend you’re the real problem. They focus on your outburst and ignore everything they

"you need help" - the person that traumatized you