My son randomly grabs my wife and I for group hugs.
This is the closest I will ever get to understanding why divorce is so painful for kids.
Growing up, I never saw two adults love each other, so I never got why folks were affected when their parents split.
But now I see.
the secret to living a calm and confident life lies in being organized and prepared. when you are always scrambling, searching, stumbling, you create an energy of chaos. part of respecting yourself is adequately preparing yourself for what lies ahead.