I've thought a lot about this over the years of my marriage....I'm pretty sure that wives can and do have more influence on their husband's souls than visa versa....What do you think?
I'm just guessing, but I bet this quote describes the basic cause for most marital problems:
“Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed.”
—Albert Einstein
It's the sum of little things that keeps a marriage strong.....For example:
I used the blower to clean some dirt and leaves off the driveway....My wife came home, noticed what I did, and said it looked nice. I smiled inside.
Too often, when there are problems, couples wait way too long to seek some help. Oftentimes, counselors don't see the couple until things have been off the tracks for a long time. There's nothing wrong with seeking counseling. The right counselor can make all the difference!