I'm not even seeing anyone else, yet I am loving my open relationship (even though it can be hard). psiloveyou.xyz/the-unexpected…

One my most important sex tips (particularly for someone who wasn't taught to give importance to her pleasure) is to be selfish: focus on you. And that includes when you are pleasing him medium.com/sexography/5-w…

It was a crushing disappointment when I realized I would never be Jennifer Love Hewitt in every other teen movie. But I survive. ow.ly/rqR550D5srb

My partner Flo has been on a few dates with another woman so I "interviewed" him about it. Despite the fact that this goes against some journalistic ethical standard, I think the results were pretty interesting medium.com/monogamish/whe…

When it comes to PDA, let's at least be aware that our intolerance has much more to do with culture (and dare I say jealousy?) than anything else psiloveyou.xyz/why-im-no-long…

I LOVE getting asked about non-monogamy because I have so much to talk about. Here are a few common things people ask or assume about ppl in open relationships. Like that you can't have kids and still be open..... medium.com/monogamish/4-c…

Of course these are the sleds the kids use in Berlin. A slab made of organic wood with graffiti on it #hipstershit #sleds #snow @ Kreuzberg, Berlin, Germany instagram.com/p/CKzjfbVDobq/…

Inspired by the book by Carl Hart. Also coming out about my drug use and fighting against my own guilt. medium.com/substance-ab-u…

I love when people’s bathroom don’t have mirrors. It’s a blessing in disguise.

The hardest part of moving to Europe is dealing with duvet covers

I think I’m in love with the Spotify algorithm

How to flirt w/ someone else when your partner's in the room on Monogamish monogamish.substack.com/p/how-to-flirt…

Sex without expectations 😅 on Monogamish monogamish.substack.com/p/sex-without-…

What do I do with my jealousy? 😣 on Monogamish monogamish.substack.com/p/what-do-i-do…

My biggest fear in non-monogamy 🥶 on Monogamish monogamish.substack.com/p/my-biggest-f…

Poly for the 45+ Set: Free for you on Monogamish monogamish.substack.com/p/poly-for-the…

🎁 The gift of jealousy on Monogamish monogamish.substack.com/p/the-gift-of-…

Being in an open relationship is humbling. It’s a reminder that I’m not the only person who can give him romance. It’s a reminder not to take him for granted. And to always try to be my best self.

In any relationship, it’s critical to take responsibility for making yourself feel safe. That means being self-aware enough to know your feelings and boundaries, and having the confidence to say them out loud.

When it comes to dating people not right for you, you’re just chasing the dragon. Chasing a feeling that’s gone. Maybe it used to be good, but it isn’t anymore. Because the fact that you labeled them as "wrong" means conflict exists inside of you. So really, how good can it be?