my biggest red flag is that i've normalized silent treatment when i'm not in mood for talk. i don't really know how to express my feelings especially when i'm sad and hurt. i only talk to myself in my head about how i feel all the time.
I never advise anyone to leave their comfort zone. Don't leave where you have peace of mind because they told you to leave comfort zone. Discomfort dey kill ooo.
They tell you what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. What they didn't tell you is
Say you're born poor, or in a family that's truly needy. You'll be surrounded by lack or low-quality circumstances — poor education, environment, nutrition, exposure. You're trapped, because poverty is an inescapable force trying to pull you down.
My detachment power is stronger than even my free will.
No matter how much you think you mean to me, I will deadass forget about you faster than the speed of light if you stress me more than necessary. Humans or material things. I will forget your name before my next meal