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The real flex is prioritizing your peace, mental health, and well-being, minding your own business, focusing on your growth, and agreeing to disagree without arguing, debating, feeling guilty, and explaining yourself.

The older you get, the more you want peace and to be left alone - away from people's arguments, assumptions, beliefs, business, complaints, disrespect, drama, energy, gossip, lies, judgments, manipulations, opinions, projections, right and wrong, stories, and emotional baggage.

Projection is when they call you out on their bullsh*t. Maturity is detaching from their perceptions and projections because they don't know you, that's not your sh*t to own, and you're not responsible for the version of you they created in their minds.

Keeping your personal life, conflicts, struggles, and breakups private, and not telling people more than they need to know even when you have a lot to say is top tier self-care.

so you're not the best. what now?

What if today was your last? July 23rd 2024 ( Six weeks ago) I was strapped down to a stretcher in extreme pain being rushed to a larger hospital The Doctor's voice was unsteady as he told me that I had blood clots in my lungs and it could stop my heart. They were all running

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content creators are the new rich. here’s one thing they learn early on… The Law of Least Effort (how to grow without burning out):

Having an emotionally mature partner is TOP TIER. You can express yourself freely and openly. They don’t insult you. They don't give you the silent treatment. They don't become aggressive or manipulative. They listen, they respond, and they patiently hold a safe space for you.

Many people achieve success, but not everyone finds both happiness and success. This is a rarity. If you're successful yet feel something is still missing to complete your happiness, here's what you need to know:

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You broke the cycle. Don't let people, places, groups, and situations that you've healed from, leveled up, outgrown, and no longer vibe with irritate your soul, trigger your mental health, lower your vibe, and bring back an older version of you.

Normalize not forcing connections with people. If someone can’t see the value in having you by their side, it's not your job to convince them.

We all do & say things that may cause tension, upset or conflict in our relationships. So accountability is key. Our ability to hold space for negative feedback about ourself in a relationship is directly related to the level of intimacy & safety we’re likely to experience in it.

Be teachable. You're not always right.

growing up i learned to work smart AND work hard depending on the situation. nothing wrong with doing both, i still get everything i desire and more. go with a method that you know works for you, everyone has different experiences