If you want to know who someone is… don’t get fooled by how much they like you. Interest is not a moral compass. A man can be mesmerised by your beauty and still dishonour you. He can chase you with obsession and still disappear when you need him most. Here’s how to discern…
Your obsession with trying to understand why something happened to you is what keeps you in a constant loop of overanalysing. You pick apart the situation, the person, the reasons, and then circle back to it again. This is happening because you’re struggling to accept what has
someone will tell you they love you and still not choose you. these types of people will never be able to commit to you. nor will they communicate it properly so you’re left to wonder your importance to them.
IVY the biggest problem for overthinkers is emotional hypervigilance, being so attuned to someone else’s energy that you abandon your own.
That’s not connection. That’s self-erasure.
Problem is if someone’s presence can stabilize you, their absence can destroy you.