Girl to girl:

Vocal men are top tier. Imagine telling you how much they love you, point out your wrong doings in a nice tone, never invalidate your feelings, communicate with you when you hurt them, and telling how worthy you are and how much you mean to them.

Ladies, there's a huge difference between a boy who kinda likes you & a man who wants your soul next to his. Don't settle !!

Ladies, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. . The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.

Until he signs the marriage papers, it ain't that serious sis.

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I love when men are men. Thank you for paying for my meals, thank you for opening my doors , thank you for letting me yap, thank you for reminding me how beautiful I am, thank you for making plans, thank you for talking things out with me, Thank you for the GENTLE love. Big Fan>

Girls be saying "i miss him" what do you miss sis?? The disrespect? The lies? The bare minimum & attention he couldn't give you? The times he made you cry? The insecurities? The flowers he never bought you? You just miss the version you created of him in your head. Move on !

Sis, a Man who loves you, will naturally wanna feed you, take you out, call/ text you, buy you flowers & treat you like a priority. If he's not doing those things then he doesn't care about you. Believe me, a man will always ACT right for a girl he really WANTS !!

Any man who can fall asleep soundly while knowing that you're Crying yourself to sleep because of him, is never the MAN for you. Let that sink in !!

Girl, if you catch yourself begging a man for human decency, a response, time together, clarity, respect, reassurance, communication & some kindness, You need to take a step back and realize that you're begging someone for the bare minimum. That's ridiculous and beneath you !!

Emotionally unavailable boys will ruin you btw. Stay away from nonchalant men that lack affection and compassion, especially if you're a very loving girl

it is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. a woman feeds off his energy. Women are reciprocators, not initiators, this is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important. she can't feel safe with you if you're not leading properly.

There's a thin line btwn someone who's emotionally unavailable & someone who just doesn't want you. And when you're emotionally invested, that line doesn't just blur, it dissolves. Bc when the heart is hungry, even breadcrumbs feel like a meal.

Marry a MAN that loves you enough to care about how his actions will effect your feelings & stop settling for immature BOYS that think you are supposed to love them after all the trauma they put you through. A real MAN knows his woman's happiness is key to a happy relationship.

I pray I marry a man who actually wants to be married. A man who isn't out here embarrassing the family we created.. I pray I marry an honest, hardworking, loving man. I pray he has morals, goals, and boundaries. even when things get tough between us he won't give up and tries >

If love ever finds me again, May the universe let me meet someone who loves me as deeply as I do. Someone who is never okay with hurting me. Someone who is loyal, kind & devoted. Someone who will never make me feel unwanted. Someone who feels like home & also finds home in me >

Me and who?

Sweetheart, it's okay to quit on a man who isn't even trying. You deserve EFFORT !!

Girlies, when a MAN really WANTS you, everything flows. no communication too hard. no bare minimum effort too great. no schedule too busy to make time for you. He will do the most for you. There's a difference between a man who CALLS you princess & a man who TREATS you like one