A seducer does not turn the power off and on- Every social and personal interaction is seen as a potential seduction. There is never a moment to waste.

The vast majority of people conform to whatever is normal for the time.

How do you recognize your victims? By the way they respond to you. You should not pay so much attention to their concious responses... Instead, pay greater attention to those responses outside conscious control.

Many men are intimidated by beauty and prefer to worship it from afar; Others are drawn in, but not for the purpose of conversation. The Beauty suffers from isolation.

People who are outwardly distant or shy are often better targets than extroverts. They are dying to be drawn out, and still waters run deep.

A mix of qualities suggests depth, which fascinates even as it confuses. An elusive, enigmatic aura will make people want to know more, drawing them into your circle.

Everyone has doubts and insecurities about their body, their self-worth, their sexuality. If your seduction appeals exclusively to the physical, you will stir up these doubts and make your targets self-conscious.

In fact, the seducer sees the world as his or her bedroom.

Never mention love and you make its absence speak volumes-your victims will wonder why you never discuss your emotions, And as they have such thoughts, they will go further, imagining what else is going on in your mind.

For women, the manly man is often the perfect victim. Mark Antony was of this type, He loved pleasure, was quite emotional, and when it came to women, found it hard to think straight. He was easy for Cleopatra to manipulate.

Excessive pride, without anything to justify it, is highly anti-seductive.

By embracing the full picture of themselves, their self-love is more real and complete. From this stronger inner position, they can turn their attention outward more often and more easily. This attention goes in one of two directions, and sometimes both.

Our continual connection to social media makes us prone to new forms of viral emotional effects. These are not media designed for calm reflection.

Few are drawn to the person whom others avoid or neglect; people gather around those who have already attracted interest.

Lull the target into feeling secure, then strike.

What if we could look within and see the source of our more troubling emotions and why they drive our behavior, often against our own wishes?

Arrange an occasional chance encounter, as if you and your target were destined to become acquainted- Nothing is more seductive than a sense of destiny. Lull the target into feeling secure, then strike.

Your first impulse should always be to find the evidence that disconfirms your most cherished beliefs and those of others. That is true science.

Never rush into the waiting arms of the first person who seems to like you. That is not seduction but insecurity.

Politeness is to human nature what warmth is to wax.