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The hidden toll of narcissistic abuse... ❤️‍🩹 You Need More Rest Than Usual. Years of mental strain from constantly walking on eggshells has drained you. ❤️‍🩹 Procrastination Becomes a Coping Mechanism. It’s not that you lack discipline—it’s a way to protect yourself. Delaying

What does an apology mean when nothing changes? What does repentance mean when there's no turning away? What does a resolution to seek justice mean when, behind the scenes, an SBC president authorizes an anti-survivor #AmicusBrief for the whole SBC? #ThisistheSBC

"Every time Jordan & others like him deny the reality of sexual abuse, they heap coals on those who have been abused & whose stories are disbelieved yet again." - Mark Wingfield us4.campaign-archive.com/?u=fe721f40103… #ThisistheSBC #SBCtoo

"When a know-nothing like Jordan can conduct a decade-long smear campaign & SBC leaders stay quiet – and even allow Jordan to think they agree – there’s no need to wonder why sexual abuse & coverups are rampant in the SBC. The reasons are on display." My latest (link in replies)

An apology without reform is meaningless & duplicitous.

A reminder: A large portion of abusers (parents, partners, leaders) are people who are adored in public.

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I was completely flummoxed by the severe bullying, and I am putting that very lightly. Until I found out it’s a thing, every time. Now I know the blame and shame is not on me, but on everyone who maintains the facade of holiness.

"Every time Allen Jordan goes on his campaign to say clergy sexual abuse survivors aren’t credible, he rips open the old wounds & causes pain." Yet no one in Southern Baptist leadership will publicly denounce him. They choose complicity. #ThisistheSBC baptistnews.com/article/where-…

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In a survivor’s healing, victims of abuse need to tell their story. They may be afraid, slow to speak, or uncertain of their words. But as we listen and bear witness to their trauma, we grant them dignity, safety, and comfort. Doing so is a reversal of the experience of trauma.

"The indifference of leadership is a big part of why the SBC’s culture of cruelty toward survivors is so entrenched. The cruelty is normalized by leaders who do nothing. And this creates a permission structure..." My column today. ⬇️ #ThisistheSBC #SBCtoo baptistnews.com/article/the-in…

To see abuse as simply a wrong action that needs to be stopped is to minimize and externalize what is a cancer of the soul and does great damage to the abused. ALL abuse is sinful spillage from the heart of the abuser and exposure of the cancer deep within.

7 Ways Narcissists Make You Look Like the Problem (And How to Spot the S... youtu.be/AUyKGpWMvNM?si… via YouTube

Amen.

Wow. Artists lead the way.👇

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