🧠 Influence isn’t just about words—it’s about presence. Distractions kill connection. The “40 for 30” method flips that. Ask for 30 seconds of full attention, and everything shifts. Because when people feel seen, they listen. Big thanks to What The Teck for the convo!

📊 Leadership isn’t about titles—it’s about influence. The most trusted leaders lead themselves first: ✔ Self-aware ✔ Empathetic ✔ Disciplined 📈 Follow what’s on screen to get the Influence Playbook—5 scripts for leading under pressure.

Clarity beats correction—every time. Set expectations early and people align without resistance. The gap between assumption and communication? That’s where entitlement forms. Influence starts when structure does. Predict it. Preempt it. Prevent the chaos.

Great leaders don’t wait for great questions. They lead with presence, purpose, and story. Want to stand out? Watch and follow for the Trust Trigger Map.

Most forget names because the brain is scanning for danger. Anchor it with curiosity. Repeat it. Personalize it. That’s how connection starts.

⚠️ Struggling to change? It’s not your behavior—it’s your beliefs. The brain rewards the familiar, not the effective. True influence starts with identity, not tactics. 🔗 Follow what you see on the screen to get 5 neuroscience-backed scripts for confident leadership.

🧠 Scrolling feeds the brain random dopamine hits—just like a slot machine. That’s why it’s addictive. Leaders break the loop, reclaim focus, and choose intentional learning. 📵 Growth isn’t found in the feed. It starts with attention.

Influence begins before a word is said. Glasses with glare, dark rooms, or sunglasses kill trust on Zoom and in person. The eyes build connection—hide them and presence fades. Follow what’s on screen to get 5 trust-building cues that speak louder than words.

🔥 Struggle forges trust in ways success never can. Most run from discomfort, but those who embrace it find purpose, empathy, and deeper connection. True influence is built—not bought. Grateful to @joshkosnick for this thoughtful conversation.

🎤 Influence isn’t a skill—it’s the skill behind every breakthrough. After 30 years studying behavior & transformation, it all points to one thing: 👉 Influence is the lever. It’s how leaders align teams, close sales, and make change last.

📊 Want to predict your future? Look at your 5 closest relationships. Their income, habits, & mindset shape yours—whether you like it or not. Don’t wait for others to grow. Align with those who already have. 🙏 Thanks Ahmad Ashrafi for the collab.

🧠 Storytelling works when it delivers value. In business, it needs a reason—a takeaway. 🎬 Beginning. Middle. Payoff. Great storytellers don’t just hold attention—they reward it. Thanks to @amberlylagomotivation for collaborating on this.

🧠 Trust is signaled before it’s spoken. Every gesture or shift reveals what’s really happening in the mind. Body language shows the truth first. 📥 Follow the steps on screen for the Trust Trigger Map—5 microbehaviors to read anyone fast.

🎯 Trust starts before you speak. Fidgeting or shifting signals doubt—before words land. Fix it: ✔ Hands in the Influence Zone ✔ Grip the floor with toes ✔ Lean in with intent Presence speaks louder than voice. 📥 Follow on screen for my free Influence Window Guide.

🛑 Many parents worked so kids never struggled— but comfort can steal resilience. Grit grows from challenge, not ease. If we want strong leaders, we must let them rise through hardship. Huge thanks to @amberlylagomotivation for this collab.

🎤 One subtle hand gesture can shift the entire room. Trusted leaders master the Influence Zone—using posture, movement, and presence to create instant trust. Because presence speaks before words ever do. 📈 Follow on-screen steps to learn the 30-day Influence Mastery Program.

🔍 Influence starts with awareness. Feet, hands, mirroring, eyebrow flashes—truth shows before words. 📲 Follow on-screen for the free Trust Trigger Map to read anyone with precision.

🌟 Progress forces choices—adapt, support, or resist. Resistance isn’t against you—it’s against what your growth makes them face. Keep moving. The right people will match your pace. 🙏 Huge thanks to Ahmad Ashrafi for collaborating on this.

⚡ Constraints don’t kill creativity—they spark it. When choices shrink, the brain sharpens, innovates, and adapts. Leaders who embrace limits turn them into breakthroughs. History proves it—restrictions can be the birthplace of your biggest wins.

💡 Going blank on stage isn’t about forgetting—it’s your brain in overload. Stress cuts access to memory. Breathing restores it. Great speakers train their nervous system, not just their words. 🙏 Massive thank-you to @amberlylagomotivation for collaborating on this.