The hardest part of a tense conversation isn't the talk itself. It’s the endless mental replay that follows. Now I'm tryna just say my piece and let that shit go. no one gaf as we all already know🥴So, wbu?

Old me thought awkward silence was horrible. My brain would instantly freak out and try to say something to fill the gap. Now? I see it as an invitation, a moment to breathe, to listen, and to just be present. wbu?

My inner monologue used to be my biggest hater. Now it's my coach. It doesn't tear me down anymore. It just asks, "What's the next right thing to do?" And when shit gets rough, it asks, "What is this tryna teach me?" Is yours like this too?

Learnt something amazing today in Church. God is good 👍

Used to act like I knew everything just to avoid looking stupid. That shit was exhausting asf. But the real power isn’t in faking it; it’s in having the guts to say: "I don’t know, but I’ll find out." That’s real confidence.

Ever thought overthinking is protecting you from making a mistake? All it really does is make you live moments twice: once in your head and once in real life. btw, u don't think overthinking is a good thing do you?

I used to think my self-worth depended on everyone liking me. I was a damn people-pleaser. Then I realized most of the people I was trying to impress were just temporary. They didn’t really care about me, and honestly, I didn't care about them either. wbu?

"Bruh, today is not the right time, I will do it next time" That was all I said most of the times and I'm sure u are the same too or nah? Well, I've learnt that the moment where you are "ready" doesn't exist. You will never feel ready until you start.

Here's a lie I told myself about confidence: It was something you get after you have your life all together. But nah, that's bs. You find it in the work you do in private and behind the scenes. #life

I honestly thought being perfect was gonna make me impressive. Turns out, it just made me forgettable. It’s the human stuff the makes you relatable and that’s what people actually remember. #impressive

Used to think avoiding risk was the same as being safe. It wasn't. It was just another way to stay stuck. If you think about it, safe and stuck are the exact same thing. do u agree?

Thought my flaws disqualified me from being respected. Turns out, they’re the exact reason people trust me. Nobody relates to perfect except for the most insecure individuals. Do u agree? #reasons

Despite being baptized, I still couldn't speak "tongues" and if you don't know, tongues is proof that the holy spirit is within you. I BELIEVE THAT TODAY IS THE DAY THAT THE HOLY SPIRIT TOOK OVER MY LIFE. I am now practicing to speak in tongues. What about you?

For the longest time, I thought rejection meant I wasn’t good enough. However, rejection is a redirection-It is painful in the moment but necessary as hell, like if u aint getting rejected at the start, then u must be doing something wrong. #LevelUp

When I started chasing my goals and ambitions, I was hyped and full of enthusiasm. Thought everything would go smoothly but ohh boy, I was so wrong. The process has been the most boring, uncomfortable and tedious process ever but all that can be done is to just keep pushing. u?

Used to ask the most stupid, weird questions and it wasn't because I wanted answers but because my goofy ass was just terrified of the awkward silence. I'm done with that, now I simply listen and u should too fr.

Used to over-rehearse every word in my head before speaking. But I've realized that real presence isn’t about saying it perfectly but instead, having the guts to say it at all and getting your message across successfully.

Used to think that I could be like Ayanokoji and manipulate the people around me if I were silent lol. But nah, I was too delusional and couldn't tell apart reality from fiction. Me being silent steemed from me being so shy and insecure . Are u an Ayanokoji wannabe too lol?