Two Phrases To Always Use In Marriage #friendspartnerslovers #communication #marriagepod #changetheodds

Marriage Conflict: The Secret to a Stronger Relationship #MarriagePod #ChangeTheOdds

Whatever you think you are fighting about, chances are the fight isn't actually about that. When we learn to look below the surface, we find the real issues at play. #marriagepod #changetheodds #friendspartnerslovers

Just because we've known something for a long time doesn't mean we can't forget. More than learning new things, we often need to be reminded of what we already know.

Recognize the cycle of conflict that arises in intimacy and choose a more effective pathway. When we recognize the emotions behind our actions, it changes everything. #FriendsPartnersLovers #changetheodds

Love empowers us to sit in the pain of our spouse without trying to fix it. Sometimes the most loving thing we can do is to be there and be quiet. #ChangetheOdds #MarriagePod

Does it feel like the first time? We hope not. Intimacy in marriage can get better over time. But that only happens when a couple works on their connection. #changetheodds #friendspartnerslovers #marriagepod

If you are dating and he (or she) cheats, it's over. Don't give them a second chance. Show empathy for the fact that they missed an opportunity to be with you. #friendspartnerslovers #changetheodds

Should couples fight in front of the kids? Some might strongly disagree with this stance, and I get it. But, I think it's fair to disagree in front of kids, but never to "fight" disrespectfully or say mean things. #ChangetheOdds #FriendsPartnersLovers

Gottman's Relationship Truth: Resolving vs. Unresolvable Issues #changetheodds #friendspartnerslovers

Is knowledge a connection or a weapon? When needing to be right turns into dismissing others, "data" becomes a way to defeat, not discover. Seen this happen? #changetheodds

Does truly knowing Him empower you to better love others? It's a fair question to ask when struggling to love. Jesus loved, and calls us to do the same. #Love #Faith

As Pastor Ray says, a leader's main role—be it a teacher, parent, or manager—is to be the most encouraged person. True leadership means finding hope beyond circumstances, injecting it into any space. #Leadership #RayJohnston

A follower of Jesus should wake up "excited and hope-filled" to be salt and light, even in a dark world. If not, have they outsourced their hope, buying into cultural angst? #Faith #Hope

Safety before solutions. Understanding before explanations. What does your spouse need most from you? #changetheodds #friendspartnerslovers

Two words that could change your marriage. open.spotify.com/episode/7Dhw0x…

Is carving out 20-30 minutes a day for focused connection the key to deeper relationships? Eliminating distractions might be the secret to just "be[ing] there." #relationships #connection

Instead of asking your spouse what they want you to do—which adds to their mental load—try saying, "Here’s what I’m going to do, unless you want me to do something different." #changetheodds

Many couples become thermometers, simply reflecting the emotional climate, instead of thermostats, which regulate and adjust the temperature. It's important to recognize and regulate emotions to avoid unnecessary conflict. #relationships #communication

A strong partnership involves waking up every day thinking about how to make your partner's life better. Couples who prioritize this create a powerful bond, unlike those stuck in mundane routines. #relationships #marriage