just APOLOGIZE to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… all that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. people love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.

Relationships are so beautiful when you and your partner are actually good friends. You show up together, share inside jokes, talk openly, have fun, and totally vibe like besties. They shouldn’t replace your actual friends but it’s so amazing when the dynamic isn't just romantic.

If we’re dating and there’s something bothering you, most especially if it makes you OVERTHINK a lot, please talk to me & let me know. i’m very much open to explaining myself and i would rather reassure you than have you sit all alone doubting what we have going on between us.

if you lack emotional intelligence we will never work out fr. i’m not teaching you how to apologize, how to take accountability, or how to treat me with respect. these are basic qualities you should already possess before entering a relationship.

women who are genuinely in love with you can increase your serotonin level no matter the shitty day you had, they can legit make you live longer too

i highly recommend getting a partner that wouldn't even think about putting you in certain situations because they think too highly of you.

it’s a red flag when your partner turns cruel during conflict. disagreements shouldn’t erase kindness. even in chaos, you should still feel care, still feel respect, still feel loved. a partner who stays kind when things are hard isn’t a luxury... it’s essential

No vas a evitar la infidelidad, por más que revises el celular, pidas ubicación, pidas que elimine a tal persona, hagas videollamada para ver con quién está, etc. Quien quiere ser fiel, lo será por la persona que de verdad quiere y sin excusa alguna.

Do women realize how much we let slide, just for the sake of peace?

Fuck all that if my girl invites my people to rented gym for my bday for some runs I’m giving her a kid the next day

People don't really understand that if a person is loyal to you, it's because of their character and morals, not because you are special

They didn't steal your partner; your partner chose them.

be selfish like everybody else

Nadie puede usar mi pasado en mi contra. Me siento en la mesa y te cuento todo, de principio a fin. Reconozco mis errores y fallas. He hecho las paces con las partes más oscuras de mi vida. Lo que para ti es un chisme, para mí es la historia de mi vida.

Nigga wtf I gotta do with this ??

I CANNOT FUCK w/ people who do NOT understand it's PRINCIPLE of things. It's not what you did. It's how you did it

dismissing my feelings because you don't see the situation as important as I do

Now I finally understand the difference between people who love me, people who love to be around me and people who love what I can do for them.

Because effort matters to me… I want to also feel special, I want to also have someone go out of their way to plan an outing that’ll make me happy, I want to also have someone think of things to do to make me feel special cos I too deserve to be loved with her actions, it’s

The internet constantly tells women that men are terrible listeners because the second a woman starts venting about her day, the man immediately interrupts to offer a logical solution. We are taught to view this as him being dismissive, emotionally unintelligent, or invalidating