If he's really a good boyfriend, why not share with a friend?

When we try to change someone they receive that energy as they are not good enough, not lovable, etc. Don’t try to change people—just love them instead.

My gorgeous bubbly Dominican lover responds with “Hiiiii” when we haven’t texted in a while. 🫠 Receiving that energy from someone I crush so hard on is such a rush.

Fucking is a great way to get to know someone.

I treat monogamous people like I treat Orthodox Jews. I don't want the lifestyle or share the belief system myself, but I will be respectful. I will not have sex with them. I carefully observe cultural norms around touch etc.

This is such a tedious perspective. Every human wants to be seen as a complete complex individual being, not stuffed in some box with labels on it. There is nothing noble about conforming to roles. “The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” - Carl Jung

I was feeling stuck last week, so I looked into this $7500 three day intensive 1-on-1 psychotherapy process. Instead, I sat down with my journal, did $5 of MDMA, and now I feel great. 😊

A follow up on the public backlash of Aurbrey Marcus and Vylana publicly sharing they’re in a throuple. This is a non-monogamous woman in her full agency and power. instagram.com/reel/DMWQV5vS6…

Every time I see a pejorative comment like ‘lol swingers’ I imagine them saying ‘lol fags’ and wonder if the commenter would think that was OK. Relationship-queer is just another flavor of queer. 🤷‍♂️

I think I should start gathering vignettes on wholesome sluttiness and compile them in a blog post titled “Chicken Soup for the Slut’s Soul.”