If I have to seek permission from my sister’s husband to get her a gift because she’s “under him” I might as well help her out of the marriage.

The realest advice I can give you today is to let people earn their place in your life. We are so quick to give, grant access and make sacrifices for others without proper consideration, only to end up disappointed by unmet expectations. Take your time, beloved.

Learn contentment instead of all this story. Or you might have a stroke when you see people living even more luxuriously on legitimate earnings.

Anxious attachment doesn’t always come from childhood. That’s something people often get wrong. You can have grown up in a loving, stable, emotionally available home and still end up feeling anxious and overthinking everything in a relationship later down the line. Because

the way people invalidate your feelings when they consider you to be a strong person is really one of the wildest thing to experience.

“You think so highly of yourself” God forbid a girl actually loves herself.

Nigeria has a lot of extremely dull elderly people that think they can talk to you anyhow because of their age.😂

A rule I live by; there’s nothing fulfilling about unrequited energy. You poison yourself slowly when you consistently hold space for those who aren’t holding the same space for you! You deserve to feel the waves you give off come back to you from time to time❤️

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When women stage manage men’s presence,all we do is teach the people that absence can still be rewarded,that performance is enough. That men can bow out and still get credit for being around. They are deeply rooted in systems that socialise women to protect male egos at all costs

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A woman has sex = shame. A woman doesn’t want sex = shame. A woman talks about sex = shame. A woman sets boundaries = shame. A woman is single = shame. A woman marries late = shame. A woman marries early = shame. A woman is loud = shame. A woman is quiet = shame. A woman is

I’m genuinely grateful to the women of this generation who are boldly sharing their pregnancy struggles. And to the women who speak up about menstrual pain, hormonal shifts, and everything our bodies endure. I love every single one of you. Don’t stop.❤️

“Sebi you are married, why are you still doing feminism” Sorry o, i didn’t know pe orgasm and wedding ring do usually erase oppression of women, child marriage, domestic violence, sexual harassment, misogyny ati bẹẹ bẹẹ lọ. Smh.

Men like this claim that they can't control their hands around women but behave like an obedient dog around men who are bigger than them in size even when they are being disrespectful, for them it's not a matter of disrespect but a matter of who they can hurt

It’s easier to give a random guy your number and block or dismiss him later than to say No in person. Until you’re a woman, you’ll never get it.

Flogging kids for school fees their parents were unable to pay.

She’s not wrong, though. A lot of you have no game. Your entire personality is your car, your job, how much you make, the varsity you went to and what you studied, expensive clothes, and alcohol etc. You bring nothing to the table when it comes to real conversation with women.

"There are some lessons only disgrace can teach you."