Men are not attractive anymore and im not even talking about looks. they are so disrespectful, want princess treatment, can't communicate, can't connect emotionally, immature and more.. is a complete turn off.
my therapist said this to me, and it hit me like a brick “if it drains you, it’s not for you. love, friendships, jobs, anything meant for you will nourish you, not exhaust you. 1/2
according to psychology people who are treated right for the first time feel so overwhelmed with the unfamiliarity they start to self sabotage. not because they don’t want love but because their mind tells them it’s too good to be true, they don’t feel worthy of this love. 1/2
according to physiology people who go silent when somethings upsets them or hurts them are often experiencing a coping mechanism called emotional withdrawal. 1/4