Before you finish digesting one bad news from Nigeria, another has happened. The entire security architecture in the country is completely broken. It’s insane.

🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬 If you will be PATIENT and COMPREHEND 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬 then READ. This year makes it 5 years that I Victoria Orenze have not gone through THE TOLLGATE. I was there physically, i barely made it before we all watched live online the killings with our eyes and yet, it was and has be

it’s crazy how God will let life feel stuck, heavy, confusing… and then on a random morning, he shifts everything with one move. one email. one call. one opportunity. one open door. and suddenly you realize the delay was protection, not punishment. he saw what you didn’t. he

I need a win.

Like when you forget it is your wedding day, you now reach there after everybody has gone home.

4 weeks to Christmas 🎉🎉🎉

“You’ll be fine” A very dismissive statement

I’ve been in Nigeria for two weeks now and I just have to say: If you’re a young person, whatever you’re doing to leave this country, take it serious. The world is big and beautiful and you deserve to experience life in a better country.

I really wish I could say this. I’m learning to. I’m getting there. But I’m not a leaver. At my core, I’m a fighter. I stay and I try and I try even harder until I’m bleeding out. I don’t know how to leave immediately. When I leave, it’s because I’ve exhausted all options.

Marriage is tough. But one thing that makes it easier, is reminding yourself that it is the coming together in covenant, under God, to learn each other every day. You are learning your partner, as they are learning you. Extend grace 💛

You don’t do long distance relationships, but your babe lives in lekki and you live in Abule egba What a wow😂😂

I genuinely hate when I’m not told what I did and then you make me walk with eggshells around you.

IMO, I think it increases the quality of your relationship. You both can actually enjoy the relationship, travel, you can give valuable gifts and just not hang on to them on survival mode. Basically, with money fears out of the window, you can see and question your love (and

I have an argument, Being loved is all these things. Many people don’t just know how to love.

Unpopular opinion: if your partner upends their whole life for you when you suddenly became blind, the only acceptable answer to whether you'd have done the same for them is YES. Doesn't matter if it's a lie. As a decent human being, the least you owe them is that merciful lie

Why should you be able to go to a restaurant when you are single (and with individual finances) and not be able to go in as long as six months when you are both married with combined finances? This doesn't have to be your reality, please.

I read books online but I don’t sit and defend privacy because me sef I know what I’m doing is not good. Yes, book are expensive but even though, mahn. You don’t have to jump through hoops to defend yourself sometimes.

Sorry erm… but I mean what were they discussing during their dating phase?🌚

If you’re mad at this, just remember that some of you on this twitter waited for Burna Boy till 3am and he still came and insulted you people and kicked someone in the head. If you put that same energy in holding the government to account…

“I booked this for us” “So I was thinking, did you wanna do —— with me?” “Should we try this new food place?” “Be ready or 8pm” “Book ____ days off work, as I booked us a trip” 🥺