As a result of ADHD, all my motivation is external. I’m motivated by spite, pressure, last minute deadlines, suffering, fear, proving my point, etc. If my world isn’t about to fall apart, I’m chilling. So, unfortunately all my lessons are learned the hard way lmaoooo
my therapist said this to me, and it hit me like a brick “if it drains you, it’s not for you. love, friendships, jobs, anything meant for you will nourish you, not exhaust you. 1/2
naysayer This is why I HATE with my entire soul when people try to group her with Leah. Leah doesn’t play that. She’s direct and doesn’t mince words! At the reunion and online she told people to not bully or spew hatred toward others on her behalf.