One of the reasons I don’t want to ever have a live in wife. I’ve had a crazy day my mind is tired to nearly exploding halafu you go home and there is someone in your house I swear I’d go mad. Me I think you should get married but live in separate houses even.

One of the dirtiest breakup tactics is when someone has already decided to leave but is too cowardly to say it. So they slowly create chaos arguments, distance, emotional exhaustion until you are the one who ends it. That way the decision is yours,and the blame is too.

Sometimes, for your own well-being and mental health, you need to look at yourself and say, “This will be the last time this person makes me feel this way,” and then put an end to it, whether it’s a relationship, a friendship, or whatever it may be.

The embarrassment you get after telling everyone you found a good partner, then they switch up and break your heart like it’s nothing.

Some weeks you'll move mountains. Some you'll barely make it out of bed. Whatever week you're having, know that you are so damn beautiful, strong, and brave.

People don't realize how much strength it takes for you to pull your own self out of a dark place mentally. If you've done that, I'm proud of you.

If you don’t think your wife is playful and fun anymore, you did that to her. Not time. You. Feminine nature is young and playful by default. If you’re not giving her an environment where she can preserve it, you’re stripping her of it.

Btw what was the motivation behind naming a town Kahawa? Kahawa Sukari na Kahawa Wendani.

I’ve been thinking less about what characteristics I want in a partner and more along the lines of: “with whom am I utterly effortlessly fully myself?” and “with whom do the parts of me that wanna bloom, naturally rise to the surface?”

Huko Nigeria Kuna place inaitwa Ozoro.. They just woke up from Rape Day. Rape Festival. Men decided.." let's rape today" And went on with it. Women locked themselves in fear.. Many women have been raped. .... In Kenya, there's a kijana kanitengeneza trend.

How do I explain it to my kids?

Stole a caption for when I get pregnant by my soulmate : it goes like 🥺 soulmated so hard, we made another heart 🤍

Never let anyone gaslight you into thinking intellectual mismatch is not a thing in romantic relationships. It's not even about formal degrees or booksmarts. It shows up in things like curiousity, conversational depth, imagination, openness, and worldviews.

a lot of adults don't better themselves??? and have no intention of growth or healing??? they’re just living their lives with horrible communication skills, lack of emotional intelligence, selfishness, and hurt feelings FOREVER?????

Finding a partner should happen in your 20s, if you wait until your 30s, you would be too smart to accept alot things happening in these day and age.

Anybody else walking around with never-ending grief about the way their life was supposed to be?

There is something beautiful about having long term friends that have witnessed multiple versions of you and loved you unconditionally through each version

Girls don’t hate cooking. They hate being told that they have to cook because they’re girls.

This runner babe on IG turned 26 and wanted to run 26k on her birthday, but she fell sick and couldn’t do it. Her boyfriend ran it. And then refused to run with music so he could recollect their memories as he ran. Permit me to cry now.