I rarely taste my food while cooking, I cook entirely on confidence and vibes so the finished product is always a surprise to me as much as it is to you. If you eat my food and something is wrong, please know that I am also a victim and we are in this together.

Your hair is suitable for every occasion in its natural state, without manipulation, heat or a hundred curl defining gels. It’s professional, it’s lady-like, it’s worthy of magazines, red carpets, formal settings and everything in between. It’s the hair you were blessed with!

do not forget about Congo. they’re going through a genocide and not enough people are talking about it. please speak up for Congo.

Friendly reminder: Jesus didn't warn us about LGBTQIA+ or atheists. He warned us about religious people who love power more than truth. I hope this rings a bell.

When you hurt someone and maintain a relationship with that person, they may bring it up again. They may need more clarity. Even if you have apologized, they may bring it up. And when that happens, it is on YOU to be patient and have a discussion about it. If you hurt that

Jamila Jamil said, "if women were naturally submissive, they would've just fucking submitted by now." We're not submissive; we're reflective. What you give to us, you get in return. Stop pretending we're cattle. Calling the sky grass doesn't change facts.

We complain about cheap South African labour and being exploited by corporations but we don’t want to address our domestic worker pay problem in this country. You don’t want your boss to underpay you but you want to underpay someone else.

BAYABIZA & raising kids takes a huge mental and emotional toll. Even with a supportive partner, the responsibility falls more heavily on women ngl

During every childbirth a woman stares death in the face. Every 2 MINUTES a woman dies due to childbirth. So if you weren't the one risking your life on that table, you don't get a vote, an opinion, or a timeline on her womb. Full stop.

PUBLIC Announcements: If you withhold something that could save a persons life and tell them to have sex with you to get it, you are a rapist. Thank you

I don't accept people treating me weirdly when they're "going through something" because when I'm going through something I'm still nice and I'm still kind and I don't feel like that's an excuse to treat people like shit.

It’s kinda like the weekend parent being the fun parent. You get to stay up late, nobody’s fussing about homework or cleaning your room, and y’all might go out to eat. The everyday parent is dealing with discipline, structure, routine, and sometimes they’re overwhelmed because

i rebuke living paycheck to paycheck. i declare overflow, expansion, and provision.

“i love your personality” thanks! its pieces of everyone ive ever loved and lost

Normalize telling boys the stories of what women in the family went through. Boys seem to hear "grandma makes the best turkey" while daughters hear "grandma was married at 14." Tell the boys the cost of their favorite meals, too.

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Just did the math. I can’t afford to have a child in the next 10 years and 6 lifetimes.

We really moved past Standard Bank allegedly having nkabis..