Hey, i just wanna remind you that you're doing great. So please don't be discouraged by what u're goin' through rn. I know healing is a long process but what matter most is seeing yourself better than you were yesterday. :)
Its never okay to ignore people lalo na kung bigla nalang kayo mawawala bigla nang walang explanation, not every person is the same, and some take that kind of behaviour, very stressful and may cause them anxiety.
nag uunsend kasi may change of thoughts or may realization, pag may ginagawa kayo and u cannot respond asap like you usually do, just say so, tell them the reason specially kung special someone nyo yon, pero kung sino man lang hayaan nyo na lang wala naman yang ambag sa life nyo.