sometimes you don’t attract what you think you deserve, instead, you attract a lesson that you’re supposed to learn.

you will always know how healthy a connection is for you by how you feel after interactions. not just in the sweet moments, but in the rough too. energy lingers, but it also never lies.

mantra; everything i lose creates space for everything i need.

when the waves show you where you stand with certain people don’t resist the current, let the clarity wash over you, let the realizations reveal who is anchored with you, let the storm strip away the performative connections leaving you with genuine ones when you arrive at shore.

you could never miss out on what was never for you to begin with.

if the connection is not reminding me of my magic and it’s not reminding you of yours, why are we even wasting our time?

you are beautifully positioned to make the next step in your life, placed with purpose to advance into the next stages of your growth, water yourself with patience and trust the season you’re in currently even if it’s taking time to see the flowers from your bloom.

certain phases of your life will require a particular kind of selfishness with your energy, a higher sense of awareness with your self-worth, a deeper regard for your intentions, some phases will require you to be for you first even if it comes at the cost of being misunderstood.

where you are isn’t where you want to be but you haven’t even met all of your(self) yet. be patient while the seeds of who you want to be come to fruition; your doubts and fears don’t deserve the power to dim your potential.

there’s something magical about having your intellectual effort matched, your senses massaged by someone that knows how to swim in the depths of your mind, your words received by someone that can carry the weight of your thoughts, energy you don’t have to dumb yourself down for.

you are not responsible for maintaining an image of yourself that people are comfortable with just because it is what they are most familiar with, you betray your growth every time you resurrect an expired version of yourself to appease anyone’s ego.

you deserve connections that don’t ask you to risk or jeopardize the balance of your nervous system just to keep them alive, connections that don’t consistently send you to war with yourself just so you can find peace.

mind your own magic and let people believe whatever they want to while you alchemize your intentions and become the best version of yourself regardless of their perceptions.

you know you’re healing when the same things that used to captivate or interest wounded versions of you don’t appeal anymore, when the growth in your decisions and discernment starts to speak louder than words.

september, elevate my perspective and lower my tolerance for anything pushing me out of alignment, nourish my self-assurance and starve any feelings of comparison. water my discernment with love so flowers can grow from all my decisions. may i find clarity every time i choose me.

you’ve spent too long grieving connections that you thought were meant to stay, been stuck on old chapters mourning versions of you that no longer exist, but you deserve to become whoever you want without the past holding you back; allow the space for a beautiful rebirth.

people pleaser; you’re exhausted because you keep going the extra mile for people that have no desire to meet you halfway. when the reciprocation is genuine your interactions will never leave you drained, they’ll revitalize you instead.

the more inner work i do, the more protective i am of the world i’ve created within me and the more selective i am of who gets to experience it.

Bought one of billy chapata. ‘s books today Can’t wait to read it🥹🤍

i hope  you learn to forgive yourself for thinking that your existence required an apology, for allowing anyone to place expectations on you without your permission, i hope you learn to forgive yourself for putting a mask on your authenticity to help anyones projections breathe.