Really good song that helped me through the worst time in my life back in 2016, and a really nice reminder that not all hardcore women/“non-men” want to re-victimize survivors. “This isnt my guilt to live with” or whatever Gouge Away

I hate to be petty online but sometimes you’re hurt and have no one to turn to

I really was willing to fade away and not ever mention any of this but go ahead and call my friend immature for calling out the hypocrisy of it and turns out I AM willing to go scorched earth

Thank you J of Halo Bite 👼🦍 for making me relive the worst time of my life. No I don’t owe anybody proof, but I owe my 18-20 year old self a voice. You are hypocrites and you hurt me.

Ugh do I really have to post everything here too re: local hardcore band forces my hand in having to reveal myself as a victim of abuse?? Just look at our instagram story

There are varying levels of enabling, culpability, and harm, but if a person shows you who they are time and time again BELIEVE THEM. “People change” is not the appropriate narrative for someone who continues to abuse people or their platforms. Therapy is not a cure all.

I don’t know, maybe I’m operating under the assumption that people actually care and want to take action when they don’t. But if that’s the reality I want so little to do with anyone like that. If nobody around you cares enough to organize then what are we even talking about

On a positive note I save all my twitter thoughts for 1am bc daylight hours are for real life now!

In my interview for my law school’s science & technology journal’s editorial board, one of the members interviewing me recognized me from playing house shows, so I had to confirm with all 8 interviewers the band I played in was indeed called “hate club”

I am anti-war but it does feel like young men between the ages of 18-24 need to be forced to do something

Choose your fighter