a secret to have good relationships is having a strong sense of concern for the welfare of others.
and instead of "I should because it’s morally correct," it’s "I want to care and love them because this aligns with my ideals and makes my life better.”
O maior favor que você pode fazer a um filho é ter uma vida própria interessante, para que ele não precise carregar o fardo de ser a sua ÚNICA razão de viver
(Contardo Calligaris)
hmm i think this is obviously not true in real life. every guy ive dated seemed very impressed with my beauty (i have masculine jawline and a big nose), but maybe i would be even more successful in my dating life without these masculine traits? guess we’ll never know