How do you feel about parties? Some people love to host them while others prefer going to them. Still others would rather stay home and cocoon. If you don't have the same socializing style, what compromises have you worked out? #marriagetip

Research says it takes five positive comments to counteract one negative. Try keeping track for one day and seek to affirm more than criticize. #marriagetip

Psychologically, negative messages are more powerful than positive ones. If you've been hard on yourself lately, list three things you did well today. It'll make you a more pleasant person for your spouse to be around. #marriagetip

Unemployment can put stress on a marriage - and it's not just about the money. Questions arise like: what value am I to my family or our society? If your spouse is job hunting or underemployed be gentle and be present for him/her. Pray for those who need work. #marriagetip

"He has done all things well. He makes the deaf hear and [the] mute speak" (Mk 7:37). Christ works great wonders every day. Share with your spouse the wonders that Christ has worked for you today. #marriagetip

If one of you is sad, sick, or depressed, how can you tell? What do you usually do to comfort each other? Does talking about it help? Or would you rather have time alone? What does your spouse want you to do? Ask. #marriagetip

What's your shopping personality? - In and out as quickly as possible; shopping as recreation; never met a bargain I didn't like; a research project? If you have different shopping styles, how do you reconcile your differences? #marriagetip

Does your beloved need to hear words of love or apology from you? Don't put it off - do it today. #marriagetip

What's your favorite food? What's your spouse's favorite food? Did you guess right? How soon can you make or buy the favorite for your sweetie? #marriagetip

A Marian Marriage Tip from Pope Francis “May [Mary] make us more aware that in having children parents are acting as God’s assistants. It is a mission...which makes each family a shrine of life, and each child’s birth awakens joy, wonder and gratitude.” #marriagetip

Lift high the Cross! Do you have a crucifix in a prominent place in your home? Seeing Jesus's sacrifice is a great reminder of the love spouses are called to every day. #marriagetip

"You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do." (Mk 8:33) We are not always capable of understanding the way in which God works. But we must always trust and remain faithful to Him, despite our lack of understanding. He will not lead us astray. #marriagetip

Christ died for us. Spouses give their lives daily for each other, and parents for their children. Your sacrifices are worthwhile! #marriagetip

What's your spouse's favorite flower or snack? Surprise her/him with it. #marriagetip

"Have no anxiety at all...if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things." (Phil 4:6-8) What do you feel anxious about today? Sharing it can lessen its power. Praying helps, too! #marriagetip

How do you use the "waiting" times of your life? Waiting for your spouse to get ready? Waiting at the doctor's office, red lights, or check-out lanes? Use these times to pray rather than get impatient. #marriagetip

"Humbly regard others as more important than yourselves." (Phil 2:3) Humility is a great asset in marriage, seeking to serve rather than be served. Open your heart to the needs of your spouse. #marriagetip

Fighting Fair Tip: Pick a good time. That probably means not when one spouse is about to leave the house or just getting home from work. Sleep-deprived or frantically busy spouses don't make receptive listeners either. When is a good time for you? #marriagetip

"Whoever receives one child such as this in my name, receives me." (Mk 9:37) Your children are God's gift to you and loving them is a way to serve the Lord. Receive them into your marriage and show them Christ's love. #marriagetip

Gifts on birthdays and Christmas are fine, but a surprise trinket/flowers may be even more delightful. #marriagetip