As I grow older, I value two truths:
– Give your loved ones the very best of you.
– God’s decisions are always the best decisions.
Everything else is just ego.
Lesson from Surat al-Kahf: Leave what you must, abandon who you must, sacrifice whatever you must - just to preserve your faith and avoid fitna in your deen.
as Ramadan nears, ask Al-Karim to cleanse your heart of any small, trivial and lingering hatred/resentments you may have. You’d benefit from not carrying such things into the most important time of the year.