Farwhisperer (Jo) (@farwhisperer) 's Twitter Profile
Farwhisperer (Jo)

@farwhisperer

Happily married woman. No unprofessional DMs please. Digital side‑eye distributor. Culture, controversy and timelines you pretend you didn’t refresh.

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calendar_today11-04-2021 12:07:38

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Because you didn’t tell us. You can’t blame us for not knowing what you have refused to share and what your own gender continue to hide. I’m sorry this happened to you. Many of us have faced it at some point, but please talk to your gender about being open. Women have never told

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Mazi, you’re once more sidestepping the entire context to push your agenda. My point to Reliver was crystal clear: we’ve NEVER gagged men from sharing their stories. You as men have chosen that position for yourselves, jumping into our trauma talk to center your skepticism

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When I think about it, as a child, older men used to shut down crying boys: ‘Boys don’t cry,’ ‘Be a man for your mother & sisters.’ Pure shaming that shaped so many men today. Many are just surviving, not thriving. Boys & men should cry when they need to release pain. They are

When I think about it, as a child, older men used to shut down crying boys: ‘Boys don’t cry,’ ‘Be a man for your mother & sisters.’ Pure shaming that shaped so many men today. Many are just surviving, not thriving. Boys & men should cry when they need to release pain. They are
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I'd be mad too if a male friend I know tells me something like that. I'd never make jokes about it because I'm a lady and I understand what it feels like to be in such a situation. Rape case is not a joke!!

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Farwhisperer (Jo) Every rule, tradition, and all, were made up by men, not women. It is up to the present generation to dismantle such rules. Times have changed; they should speak up and not remain silent or wait for a woman to speak about her problems to counter it.

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TRUE STORY When I was 17, I went clubbing in London with my older brother, feeling very adult, very sophisticated, and absolutely ready for a whirlwind romance that would begin on a sticky dance floor. Then I saw him: easily the most handsome man I’d ever laid eyes on. Perfect

TRUE STORY

When I was 17, I went clubbing in London with my older brother, feeling very adult, very sophisticated, and absolutely ready for a whirlwind romance that would begin on a sticky dance floor.

Then I saw him: easily the most handsome man I’d ever laid eyes on. Perfect
Farwhisperer (Jo) (@farwhisperer) 's Twitter Profile Photo

They told us that to control us. Let’s disabuse ourselves of most of the nonsense we were told back then. It applied to the olden generation, not us.

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Nigerian men, we are sorry, you're not the worst. At least you don't ask us to pay back debts once we move on. What a waste of space.