The happiest people I know don't have perfect lives. But they have one thing in common: They've mastered the art of moving on. They don't keep score, they don't cling to what if, they don't dwell. There’s a hell of a lot of progress hiding in the skill of not staying stuck.
الدكتور عبدالرحمن ذاكر دايمًا بيبدأ مجالسه بدعاء جميل أحبّ ترديده؛
اللهُمَّ وجّهنا لما خلقتنا له، واصرفنا عمّا نهيتنا عنه، ولا تشغلنا بما تكفلت لنا به،
اللهُمَّ اجعلنا من جند الخير،
دُلنا عليك، أرشِدنا إليك، علّمنا منك، فهمنا عنك، واعِذنا من مُضلات الفتن ما أحييتنا.
you learn to survive without support, even when it’s available. You default to doing everything yourself, not out of pride, but because history taught you that no one’s coming. Its exhausting, it isolates you. It makes asking for help feel like weakness, even when you’re drowning