Being a victim is apart of a lot of people’s identity
They don’t level up, take accountability or move on in life because it would challenge who they think they are
They wouldn’t recognize the person in the mirror anymore and that’s a scary feeling for most
my father always told me “if you want to go for a run, go for a run, don't look for company. sooner or later, on your fifth run or your twentieth, likeminded people will find you themselves” and only recently have i realized that this principle works everywhere.