Trust me, someone who's healed, done the work, and is genuinely happy won't go out of their way to be evil or malicious. Only miserable people do that. Ignore them and never stoop to their low vibrations.
1 Peter 1:22 KJV
Seeing ye have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit unto unfeigned love of the brethren, see that ye love one another with a pure heart fervently:
Abusers are not ‘out of control’. They are not unaware of what they’re doing. They are operating from a belief system — one that says, I am allowed to control you. I am allowed to punish you. Your feelings, needs, and autonomy don’t matter as much as mine.
#DomesticAbuseAwareness
Sabotage is a common tactic of control. Abusers often time their cruelty to damage your confidence, career, and independence.
#CoerciveControl #EmotionalAbuse
Someone in my community shared this recently, and it stayed with me.
She said someone once told her: “It seems like you really attract abusers.”
Her reply?
“I disagree. Would you say that zebras attract lions, or that lions hunt zebras?”
#DomesticAbuseAwareness