I think a lot of subs don’t realize that you won’t build a relationship outside of a dynamic if YOU don’t start it.
We as dommes get dozens of dms every day, we can’t constantly check in with subs and ask how they’re doing, what they’re up to, how they feel today, etc. If you
Golden rule for Findom:
The moment they sense you’ve got empathy, they’ll shit on you. Don’t be nice. Don’t feel sorry. Don’t play fair. Be a fckn
B!tch. That’s how you get paid. That’s how you win.