I wish all women had the confidence of men who think there is even one person who wants to pay them to be in porn.

It’s definitely a product of Puritanism and not feminism but it’s still interesting that for the thousands of jobs Barbie has had, the one thing she never was was pregnant.

Finishing the final level of fatphobia by selling all my “if I lose weight” clothes.

What if instead of “I’m taking too long to cum” it was “he lacks patience and fortitude”

What if instead of “it’s so hard for me to cum” it was “he lacks the skills and ability to please me”

Why does he get to cum if you don’t?

women will be so proud of not faking an orgasm but talk to me when we’ve normalized ending sex before he cums by saying this isn’t working for me, I’m done with this now.

Fat women encounter a special set of prejudices in dating but please remember that bad men treat all women terribly. Women of all sizes get cheated on, abused, used, undervalued, and mistreated.

Reminder: the people fat shaming Lizzo now were never on the right side of things. Also, don’t worship celebrities. Having one or even many talents does not correlate to ethics.

Most men aren’t attractive enough (without also being interesting) for me to want to fuck them.

Needing a man to be interesting on a dating app isn’t about wanting to date or have a relationship. Y’all just aren’t hot enough. Wit and persoanlity are all you have to offer. Why is this such a foreign concept to men on the apps?

Closure comes as often as a woman having casual sex with men (almost never)

Did you really want to be a parent or was having a child a way to validate your life because no one ever taught you how to do it for yourself?

Anyone have any good memoir recommendations?(preferably by fat authors but not mandatory)

Victoria is dating in her thirties and increasingly uncomfortable with the dating experiences available to her. Humorous and raw, Dating While Feminist exposes both the joys and the brutality of living in a man’s world as a (fat)woman. amazon.ca/dp/B0CQK8LB53